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Dating in the Closet
Dating a guy in the closet: yes or no? | Yahoo Answers
Admittedly, this is not ideal for me, because I have had and continue to work on my own development as a queer man, and the concept of living partially back inside the closet is, frankly, a turn-off. So, then we are left with the question, how does one date a man in the closet? What force is keeping them living in secret? Often it is fear; however, for some it could be as simple as requirements for their job or basic shyness. If the reason, other than fear, does not mesh well with your personal values, then I would advise discussing it with your prospective fella, and moving on from the prospect if there is no room to negotiate. For certain, whatever annoys you about their closet is going to annoy you further down the relationship road, thus it is important to avoid such toxicity if it violates your values. If the reason for his closet is fear, that is an entirely different animal altogether.
Dating a guy in the closet: yes or no?
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But instead, you're forced to live a hushed and silent lie. Yes, I loved him unconditionally and cared about him more than anyone else, but sometimes, love just isn't enough. It was as if we were two awfully similar souls colliding like asteroids. OK, so maybe describing our relationship as a catastrophic scenario is slightly drastic, but my emotions at the time were certainly not.